Humans think being alone means that they are the only ones who feel that way when it’s the opposite. “Alone is an extremely natural emotion to feel. From some of my responses, it sounds like I’m not the only person that’s felt that way. Even though I knew I wasn’t going to be alone forever (more than likely I would be seeing my boyfriend within the next week or two) I couldn’t help but feel like the Forever Alone guy was actually me. (which is more than a lot of people in long distance relationships get to see theirs, so really, I was lucky.) But the feeling of being by myself, when all my other roommates would stay out with their boyfriends and I’d be the only one in the apartment for the night really got to me sometimes. It was a long distance relationship, so I only saw my boyfriend twice a month or so. I know when I really started to relate and enjoy the Forever Alone meme, I was in a relationship. Perhaps that is why it’s so popular… I think as a whole, we sometimes thrive on our own emotions, a lot of the times focusing on the negative ones. I don’t do it, but a lot of people do which is probably why he’s so popular.” I agree with what Jen said about making a joke about it first. Travillian said, “The forever alone meme is kind of depressing. But some people are kinda taking it too seriously I think. Really, I think that was the original intention of the Forever Alone meme. Jen Saltsman said regarding my post, “The forever alone meme is kind of depressing, now that you mention it! But I think it’s more of a way to poke fun at yourself before someone else does.” When I originally wrote the “Alone Forever?” post, I really thought that some people would think that I was taking it too seriously and being a Debbie Downer on the whole thing.īut I was relieved to see that many of you felt the same way I did. As much as I want to go on a cruise next December, I would rather that Nicole and I adopt a much-needed sense of optimism… and allow the money jar to remain empty.I’m glad to see that a lot of us are on the same page when it comes to our feelings about memes. However, sometimes we need to hear the truth, adopt a different perspective, and focus on the positive aspects of our lives. I am in no way suggesting we adopt a Pollyanna view of the world, and never share our burdens. We all have that go-to person that we rely on when things are coming undone.
We could take that Christmas cruise in no time. If either of us grumbled about our “go to” topics verbally or through texts, we had to put money in the jar. I don’t think I have to tell you that she was more than ready to beat me in yet another competition. I texted Nicole and asked if she would be willing to enter a little challenge with me. One of the characters has to put a dollar in a jar every single time he says something jerky. I am almost certain that she has grown sick of hearing me drone on about the same old, same old. As soon as she brings up that topic, I tune out knowing that there is nothing I can say to move her forward.
We each have one particular grievance that seems to dominate our discussions. Negative Nancy and Debbie Downer are stuck in a cycle of perpetual complaining.
No real listening or offering of advice is necessary. Our conversations consist of one “woe is me” story after another. Lately, I recognized that Nicole and I had gotten into a bit of a rut.
We speak to each other every single day, and have grown to respect and appreciate our differences. However, I am happy to report that these days we share a healthy friendship. Our relationship has not been an easy one. I am tall, clumsy, overly sensitive, and am satisfied with the ribbon given out for simply showing up. Nicole is petite, athletic, dominant, and competitive. From the beginning, it was clear we were opposites in every way possible.
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